Theme: Valuing, Understanding & Securing Children’s Emotional Growth Emotionally safe parenting creates a foundation where children feel heard, respected, and secure enough to grow with confidence and resilience.
1. When my child expresses strong emotions, I acknowledge and validate their feelings.
2. I help my child name and understand their emotions.
3. My child feels safe sharing thoughts, worries, or mistakes with me.
4. I listen to my child without interrupting, judging, or dismissing their feelings.
5. I reassure my child of my love even when they fail or make mistakes.
6. I focus more on effort than outcomes when praising my child.
7. Rules and expectations in our home are clear and explained respectfully.
8. Boundaries are enforced calmly and consistently.
9. I manage my emotions calmly in front of my child during stress or conflict.
10. I openly demonstrate healthy coping strategies (breathing, pausing, reflection).
11. I allow my child to make age-appropriate choices.
12. I guide my child when needed without taking control.
13. I respect my child’s unique personality, interests, and pace of growth.
14. I avoid comparing my child with siblings or peers.